When it sounds like someone is blaming you for something, it's a reflection of what's going on inside of them...
There are many instances for which blame is what it is: someone did something / people did something / a group did something. It can be very black and white.
When someone blames you for doing this-and-that, be aware of how you're feeling when you're blamed. The traits we tend to dislike in others are usually traits we do not like about ourselves / our past. The same for those who are placing the blame on you / others. These need to be healed.
We have to be held accountable for our own actions, our own feelings, our own outcomes. Hold yourself accountable.
Do not blame unless you're ready to face those consequences. When you're blamed, take a step back and examine what's really happening.
Heal. Live. Keep going. 💛